Right ive posted here before regarding the girl who was obsessively calling for dd and hanging in my garden even when dd wasnt playing out or was out elsewhere. Ive taken advice on board and luckilly things hadnt been as annoying.
Last night dd (8) was playing out, back at school today so wanted her in to get organised and early night etc, She came in at around 6pm and no other children were out apart from this girl and her brothers, 7.30 this girl knocks at my door was trying to settle all the kids and my OH answered it and sent her away and told her she will see dd at school tomorrow, she laughed in his face and said school wasnt starting until weds. He was shut door on her anyway and few mins later I heard shouting outside and it was this girl shouting up at my dds bedroom window I was in middle of reading the younger ones a bedtime story and told her to go away (nicely btw) she did but noticed she was still playing out until after 8pm!
This morning 8.15am tryingt to get 4 kids organised and knock at door, I just knew straight away it was her, ignored first knock but she knocked again, went to the window and told her dd was nt playing out she said its ok but my mum wants to know if schools open today? Closed the window got back to plaiting dds hair and heard the dogs barking ds went to see why they were barking and came back and said the girl and her brother were behind the back gate teasing the dogs!! Again broke off to send them out and she got cheeky with me, I couldnt help it got bit mad with her told her to stay out of my garden and if she carries on wont be playing with dd anymore, I then told her to go home and get ready for school. I looked up at house the mum was in the window and obviously saw what happened. Im bloody furious I feel mean because there is obvious issues with this family.
My next door neighbout has a son same age and in same class at school she suggested its time I spoke to the mum, even though find her unapproachable. So on way home from dropping kids off she passed us dragging hers to school they didnt look like they had had their hair done or anything, I told my friend from next door that should leave it until later as not a good time, so we waited until she was on her way back and had a word with her. Ive basically said to her ive not gor a problem with her dd but Ive asked her number of times to stop calling for dd and distrupting our household and also said I dont want her in my garden without been invited in and explained that the teasing of the dofgs and then getting cheeky with me isnt on, my next door neighbour backed me up and said she was also fed up of her pestering for her son. The mother just starred like she was in a world of her own then walked off and said well were moving soon since noone round here likes us!!!
Feeling bit guilty as think she might have depression or something only ever see her on school runs or when shes sat on door step smoking. Feeling really shaken by it tbh hate confrontation