Glasses in Bed

[extremelyfedup]

My husband insists on wearing his glasses in bed, if you get what i mean.
I find it a bit weird, and sometimes they tend to get in the way......

Is it just me?

does he fiddle with them to keep them in place

Surely they get sweaty and slide down his nose? (specs wearer here)

Do your make up REALLY big (like with a broad brush)
Then he won't need them to see you.

Aha well maybe he just wants to see you better! I often wear glasses and forget to take them off until my partner swipes them off and chucks them (carefully) and sexily away (is that a thing???) so things can er, get underway.

Or I've completely misread and he sleeps in his glasses. That sounds uncomfy.

Yanbu, it's like keeping your socks on IMO.

I make DH take his off, but then I feel a bit sorry for him not being able to 'enjoy the view' personally, I think this is a good thing though

DH sometimes walks around with nothing but glasses and socks on, then expects me to want to have sex with him.

Does he wiggle them up and down like Eric Morecombe?
Cos that would just be weirdy

That was to shatners, btw

Ugh.

Just how bad is his eyesight?

"Yanbu, it's like keeping your socks on IMO."

It's nothing like keeping your socks on. Sometimes my feet are freezing and OH doesn't want me to put my cold feet against him.

I am very short sighted but don't keep my glasses on in bed, not even to read.

If his eyes are anywhere near as bad as mine he'd need them on to have any hope of seeing you. Without mine on I could be seducing the next door neighbour and not have a clue, all I can see is a blur.

Aw, it's not ugh, just the least erotic presentation of manliness that has ever been seen.

DP suggests he rolls you in flour and aims for the wet bit.

I am very shortsighted and see nothing wrong with your DH's behaviour here.

I have fallen off the bed during sex and have completely missed the penis once trying to initiate oral. Best for everyone that I can see.......

I've always taken mine off. Husband takes his off.

Used to quite like doing it outdoors in my youth. Different boyfriends though... was a contacts wearer at the time, but would probably have left glasses on in those circumstances - if only to keep an eye out for anyone coming (other than us )

I take mine off. I hate it when they get smeary from his face when snogging.

Maybe everything seems more magnified and that's why he keeps them on?

Given the difficulty most men have with locating of key body parts, I think your husband's being most considerate.

Both DP and I have horrendous eye site but as the lights tend to be off when we're in bed, there is no need for glasses

Both dh and I take ours off but only cause when we haven't we tend to get a clash of glasses and it ruins the mood a little.

I don't wear mine- a bit of soft focus effect can be quite useful

We both wear glasses. There is a bit of a clash and they could get entangled. Mine cost a blooming fortune (varifocals) so I am not risking breaking them for anyone!!

Dh likes mine on.