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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

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to want wine now?!!

24 replies

spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 16:39

At home with my 7mo, dp was meant to be going out tonight with a mate, he informed me this morn after speaking to his mate that they are meeting up at 2.30 - fucking ridiculous, I'm home all week with the baby and was looking forward to spending today with him and a nice quiet night by myself, baby asleep and rubbish tv.
Now I'm alone all day and he will come home this eve drunk and annoying.
I'm so tempted to have a glass of wine so I don't feel so hard done by! I'm aware I prob abu, it is a bit early and I won't but it would be so nice!

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kelper · 07/06/2014 16:43

I'll join you!! My dh went to his workshop this morning,s aying he'd be back at lunchtime. I rang him at 4 and he was in b&q, then was going back to the workshop and wasn't sure when he'd be back, was that ok?! So DS is going to get his steak dinner, and I'm having wine!!
So, no, YADNBU

ExitPursuedByABear · 07/06/2014 16:44

Have one for me.

Lonelynessie · 07/06/2014 16:46

Yanbu! I have just put a bottle of white in the fridge and can't wait much longer :)

justcallmethefixer · 07/06/2014 16:46

YANBU, or if you are I am too as I have just poured myself one

Dp is working all weekend again and DS is surgically attached to the pc.

restandpeace · 07/06/2014 16:50

Ive just had one!

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 17:11

Oh thank you all so much, I expected a flaming - once dd wakes I'm off for a bottle of white so!!
Kelper dp does that too, he goes to town for one thing and is gone hours "I was looking for something" - so annoying. Hope ye are all enjoying the wine, I'll join ye soon now I know I'm within reason :-)

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CSIJanner · 07/06/2014 17:16

Great minds - I was just womdet

CSIJanner · 07/06/2014 17:18

*big thumbs, little phone

I was just wondering whether I should post a suggestion of wine early. Although my big thick fingers may give the impression that I may have had anything more than tea already!!

GoringBit · 07/06/2014 17:20

Oh spongebobmum, you deserve it, go ahead. I'm on my second g&t, but in my defence, it's 7.18 here

dipitydoyou · 07/06/2014 17:25

Go for it OP - don't know what the weathers like by you but the sun's popped out where we are so going to sit out and have one myself!
Cheers!

Meeeep · 07/06/2014 17:32

I've had 2 YADNBU (I'm also at my parents and had the day off getting pampered while my Dad looked after DD so no stress here as an excuse) enjoy!

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 17:35

Goring I think if I had any here I'd have started too, I'm off to the shop soon as dd wakes!
Exit I'll definitely have one for you too - I think today calls for peanuts and choc too... comfort eating much

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PaintedLady2014 · 07/06/2014 17:42

Oh man it's not THAT early! I'd join you if I wasn't totally skint...I might be able to stretch to a can of cider in a little while. My DH is out tonight as well in Birmingham (miles away from us) so I'm planning a night of shit TV, a play about with my makeup (it's a hobby) and that's about it!

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 17:47

Meeeep that sounds like bliss, lucky you :-). If dp hadn't fecked off at silly o'clock we would have gone to his parents and had a nice relaxed day then wine and tv while he was out - instead he told me the going out time, I threw a strop and barely spoke to him - mature! Ah well, nearly wine time!

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Spottybra · 07/06/2014 17:50

I've just poured a glass. I've had pizza, chocolate, have stomach cramps and I either break my diet with HUGE bars of chocolate or I have some wine. I feel as though I deserve it after being in the supermarket crowds twice on a Saturday (I realised I don't have the car tomorrow and I normally do packed lunch shop on a Sunday).

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 17:51

Paintedlady do get a cider, join us!

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 17:54

Spotted I was thinking of getting pizza but I'm on a budget so wine and some nibbles it is, there's garlic bread in the freezer if I want food later lol!

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MrsBrianODriscoll · 07/06/2014 18:03

I am just about to finish a bottle of fizz, I started at 4.30 pm.

In my defence I was Face timing my BF who is on holidays in Greece, her H is lovely but he is a man child and she has had enough. He failed to save spending money, has no money to buy her a birthday meal and has told her she will have to wait for her present until his bonus comes in, but yet he has enough money to go see Man U play regularly.

So DH and I FT'ed her to make her feel special.

Go ahead OP.

ICanSeeTheSun · 07/06/2014 18:10

I'm on JD and coke.

thebodylovesspring · 07/06/2014 18:14

Oh go for it. What's all the angst for? Have one. I
Am just about to make pizzas for the family and will have a glass needing the dough! Lovely.

And shit tv? Britains got talent final and the footi.

I am aware I may be sad.

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spongebobmum · 07/06/2014 19:23

Oh this is so good, wine I think I love you! For now it's music tv, Graham Norton recorded for when dd is settled.. Also maltesers and popcorn!

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peppinagiro · 07/06/2014 20:21

I've got a bottle of white in the fridge that i have been waiting to crack into all day. Had just got DD to sleep, snuck off and had my hand on the fridge door....only to hear a wail and have to race back upstairs. Am now stuck back in bed with boob out, wine-less :(

peppinagiro · 07/06/2014 20:22

And to make matters worse, DH and PILs are drinking and carousing in the garden without me. Fuckers.

IwinIwin · 07/06/2014 20:27

Glass of wine and a bath? I've just signed up for netflix for a free month to watch while I'm bathing and sipping :)

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