YANBU. He is very lovely.
Mind you, maybe he be different in the flesh. In my single days, I remember lusting after a slightly evasive but Damon-esque man (specifically a cross between Damon and a young Heath Ledger) and after several years of always being seen at my best, managed some dates.
He lectured me on the evils of sugar in food, using cars and laughing too loud at jokes. Such a let down.