To have bought a gift for adoptive mum

[lade73]

and not the child. They have got loads of stuff as you can imagine after a very long wait so i got a keepsake for mum, is this ok?

I think it sounds very thoughtful.

Of course it is OK. Presumably most people will buy for baby so I think it's lovely that you have bought a special something for Mum.

Absolutely OK.

Setting aside the adoption part, you were generous enough to buy A gift to mark AN occasion. That was very nice of you.

I can quite imagine, actually, your friend treasuring her keepsake more than the random items of clothing or toys the child will have got.

Thanks everyone, wasnt sure if it seemed wrong not to bring a baby gift.