to think I may never have sex again!?

[industrialeststeskies]

aged 32.

I know worse things happen at sea but I do miss it.

I wish

Calm doon.

Tinder?

If it's just sex you're after, there are ways and means.

urgh... there may well be 'ways and means' but really.. what chance of finding someone you might want to have sex with?

The thought of 'having sex' with some random guy who might, on the face of it, be 'hot' but who in all reality might be a total twat, just means that I couldn't be 'having sex'!

OP you have lots of time to find someone special. You might even find someone worthy of a ONS... Best of luck lol

at the moment, I'd personally be happy to never have sex again. if you want to though, I can see why you might be frustrated!

myroom I am with you - tinder et al does NOT appeal. I don't want a ONS but a relationship, but I can't find a relationship, I do miss intimacy though.

...what's tinder please?

...what's tinder please?

It's a dating app:-

www.gotinder.com/

There's a rather lightweight review of it here:-

www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/10317832/Tinder-review-a-womans-perspective.html

It's not quite a dating app: it is a sex site.

I use it as a dating app.

Some of the men on there are looking 'for fun', some are looking for 'a serious relationship' - quite a lot are pretty hot. :)

Well, but I'd be happy with 'normal but nice'! Hotness isn't a pre requisite!

You will have sex again, it just doesn't feel as if you will when you've been single for ages.

For me ONS don't appeal and the latest man I've dated didn't appeal. I'm starting to feel eternally single (and will probably get eaten by my cat one day) (especially since I put her on a diet).

Not sure I will! Been single for years, years and years

I would settle for normal and nice too. Next month will be 10 years. It doesn't get any easier sorry OP

Please don't worry. There's a lid for every jar. And trust me , once you've got it you'll wish u never had it

Op how are you going about finding this relationship at the moment ?