To leave it all to DH tonight

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I'm on ML. Had a very stressful day stuck inside (weather is crap) with a 2 y/o and 8 w/o. Everytime I got baby to sleep toddler would get hyper and wake him. And I've had a few nights of constant feeding too (I'm bf). Have handed baby and toddler to dh to mind until I have to feed. I can hear him getting stressed out but I'm going to sit here on MN and leave him to it.

Good for you!

I always crack and go and help dh. I need more staying power

Of course YANBU. If he's stressed then that should make him realise how hard it is for you to do it all day. You need a break from it.

I am here on MN, Dh is in the kitchen preparing a fish salad for tea, he has cleaned loo and agreed with DS1 that he will hoover tomorrow. I am

I hate mother guilts. Ds1 is bawling crying but all I want to do is eat. I'm even contemplating alcohol

A small glass of wine won't hurt.

CailinDana I love you, will you marry me. (I don't share my )

I have a glass of my own so I shall join you. And I shall marry you. Just don't tell my husband.

It shall be our secret [shhhhhhh]

Are you having the glass of wine OP? If so, good for you. It is stressful and your post is reminding me of the early days with 2 young children. Oh how tough it all was. It gets so much easier in time.

Yabu not to go to bed and sleep for a bit!