DH lent the car to someone, without asking me

[ZingSweetMango]

In my dream last night!
how dare he?
and it was to someone I don't like.
but the bigger problem was that I was just about to go out and was in a rush!
I went outside and this woman just drove off!
I was so upset and angry with him I cried.

I woke up crying. DH asked what was wrong and after I explained he actually apologized - but I'm not convinced I can trust him as I think I could detect in his voice that he was smiling.

AIBU to be worried he might do something like that again or worse, in my dream?

LT(dream)B! and on your behalf!

Oh (woo alert.....) I once dreamt my new dh was having an intense ea with a work colleague, we all worked together, then ten years later we had both changed companies and ended up working in the same company and he did have an ea with a colleague which then went on to a full blown affair after I left the job. He is now an exh obvs but I wonder if that original dream was a warning?

thats nothing.... mine had an affair and left me and kept bringing OW round and refusing to speak to me. I was heartbroken when I woke up and he felt guilty all day

I have those dreams too! I feel inexplicably angry and my poor DP just rolls with it and apologises

You're lucky you get an apology with or without smirks. Mine just tells me he is not responsible for what he does or does not do in my dreams!

Mygrandchildrenrock, that is just so typical isn't it, the nerve!
My DH had an affair in my dream and the insensitive clod couldn't understand why I was upset with him. Well duh.

I once dream-cheated on DP (his dream). He woke up, flounced out if bed (full on threw the covers back so hard the duvet flew of the bed) and stomped downstairs, all while giving me evils. It took two cups of tea before he'd even tell me what was wrong. He kept giving me the old "You know what you've done, don't act so innocent"

fandango

yeah, don't you dare acting all innocent!

I hope you grovelled afterwards!

I once woke up in floods of tears because my DH had taken our elderly ill dog to the vets and had it pts without telling me. It was the right thing to do but I was so concerned that the dog would have been scared and confused.
Problem is: I don't have a dog, and have never owned a dog. I don't even like dogs. At all.

Was a very confusing few minutes for me, and for dh who couldn't work out why I was so upset and angry with him.

OP! I dreamt last night my OH SOLD my beloved polo and used the money to buy a ugly blue huge car. I was actually devastated in the dream and crying so much that I woke myself up and felt really upset when I awoke.
I kept yelling at him in my dream that it was MY car how could he sell MY car

I too have been dream-cheated on. One of the things that really upset me in the dream was that he actually didn't care if my feelings were hurt. So he cheated on me (she had long brown curly hair btw) and didn't worry or care about whether I knew.
When I woke up I was furious with him. He did apologies, in between laughing.

Dh cheated a couple of night ago. When I told him all he said was, "Oh, did I? When?". No apology or anything. Bastard.

you are all brilliant - can't stop laughing!

My dh refuses to apologise when he's upset me in my dreams. Even if I have been in floods of tears (in the dream).

His excuse is that it's my subconscious! not his! Bastard.

I dreamt I shagged Russell Brand yesterday. I don't even fancy Russell Brand. I told DH and his response was that there will always be a little bit of me that fancies him now. The git is probably right as well

I dreamt that DH was determined to have sex with a prostitute in Amsterdam, and nothing I said could stop him, not even saying I was going to leave him and he'd never see DD again!

He thought it was hilarious when I told him. And definitely no apology.

I put it down to being pregnant and having odd dreams every night. :-)

I have dream cheated on my DH with another lady, DH was pretty keen on hearing the details when I woke up!

HypodeemicNerdle

If I knew how to get a shocked face in I would do so!

mine left me for his ex got seriously fat refused to see the kids and took me on JK she claimed to be preggers and i proved he had a vasectomy!!! he woke me up before the fight broke out because i was giggling so much