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To think this guy is out of order?!

12 replies

Mummytotwox · 27/01/2014 17:01

I have a guy on my Facebook. A year ago he was diagnosed with acute pancreatitis. He was told it was after he went on holiday with a boyfriend and drank a lot. He's 20. Every single status is about getting drunk ect.

He's alway just met a new guy on the 27 dec. he's now engaged. And every other status is about how there spending 20k on there wedding in oct.

My god. I think it's such a shame he's drinking his life away when he knows what it's doing to him :(

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DidoTheDodo · 27/01/2014 17:03

Are you're bothered because....?

(You didn't even claim he was a friend)

Delete, delete, delete...

lookingfoxy · 27/01/2014 17:04

Just hide his posts ?!

formerbabe · 27/01/2014 17:04

What's the cost of his wedding got to do with it?

ilovesooty · 27/01/2014 17:05

And this is your business because...?

Mummytotwox · 27/01/2014 17:06

I just think it's sad about his health.

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formerbabe · 27/01/2014 17:07

Yeah but I still don't get why you mentioned how much the wedding is costing them?!

HyvaPaiva · 27/01/2014 17:11

To call him 'out of order' for his decision-making is really very unreasonable and quite odd.

It might not be advisable, it might not be how you'd live. It's wrong to call him 'out of order'. It's not your call to make.

Also, what does his relationship and wedding have to do with this (or indeed with you)?

Mummytotwox · 27/01/2014 17:12

Lol because I think it's all fake. They've been together less then a month.

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TimothyClaypoleLover · 27/01/2014 17:12

Why is he out of order? His money, his life, his business. If you are getting annoyed by all his status updates just delete him.

cardibach · 27/01/2014 17:16

So, is it the fakeness (presumed) or the drinking you are upset by? Your post is a little odd.

lollerskates · 27/01/2014 17:30

I don't understand how he's out of order.

DameDeepRedBetty · 27/01/2014 17:33

What a strange thing to do an AIBU about!

Are you only keeping this guy on your FB to observe him trainwreck his life?

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