It's my birthday Monday, rubbish month for a birthday 
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As always went out in the sales and got new shoes, jacket and said that's fine for my birthday. Expect a token gift on Monday, nothing extravagant but something to open.
Came home this evening, after admittedly a shockingly bad day at work. so maybe I am being sensitive?
2 mins after I walked in OH says, well you know what your birthday present is, so I might as well give it too you now (I wanted a new phone cover). I said but I won't have anything to open from you on Monday! He then ranted I had been offish with him all day blah blah (maybe true,no tine to text, stressful day at work) so he wanted to cheer me up, but cheering me up today means nothing on Monday.
I sound like a child, I know birthdays as you get older are not as important, but something small to open from him on the day, would have been nice?
His argument was, but you know what it is!
My argument was but, if I said I want earrings I would know what it is but not what it looked like? Same as a phone cover.
Feeling sorry for myself and it's my first birthday since my mum passed and I don't think that has even occurred to him.
Not gonna be a great weekend.