To think OH/DH was a complete dick tonight?

[Dingleinthevillage]

Cancelled luxury two night break away, because he has a cough. Moaned all evening and ranted because some of my FB friends mentioned I have a big birthday this year (50) and we should go away!

Book a holiday to celebrate your birthday without him. Too many men expect their partners to drop things to fit around them. 2014 should be about you a little more than 2013 was.

I'm guessing you having to work your life around him is a common theme?

A cough could be the first symptom of a cold, even worse it could be the onset of man flu and doesn't Ebola start in a similar way? Passing up of a romantic and potentially dirty mini break wouldn't happen for no reason

As a fellow man I sympathise with him, so do your womanly duty and make him a lemsip and some soup.

Alternatively tell him to grow a pair, cancelling a trip for a cough is pretty lame

Yup. Completely dick totally describes it.

Is he always so selfish?

He cancelled-without asking to see if you still wanted to go or go with someone else?

Yep - as much fun as dick with an itchy rash,

Have made it all worse by drunkenly propositioning all and sundry on Facebook to go on holiday with me. How did that happen, thought I was relatively sober.