to think that dd(3) is gaslighting me?

[Ginocchio]

DD(3), whilst sat on toilet:

"I don't need a wee"

"but you're doing one right now!"

"no I'm NOT!"

Please tell me it's not just me...

LTB

My, granted SN, 4.5 year old son, looks me right in the eye and tells me he isn't pooing as the poo fills his pants.

He also denies he is peeing while actually sitting on the pot peeing.

It's a conspiracy.

My ds (6 with SN) is like a camel, can hold on for HOURS and hates doing a wee. I sit him on the toilet, he sits there looking at me for a while, then does a big relieved face and says "phew! That's better - down now" He has done nothing. Not a drop.