IANBU and annoyed!

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(Backstory - DH and I both play guitar)

DF (making conversation)- "Are you going to teach your DC to play guitar when they are older?"

Me - "Yes, probably, if they show an interest"

DM - "Why haven't you taught them yet? Is it because you can't be bothered?"

Me - "Argh! No, funnily enough, it might be more to do with the fact that we both work full time, don't own a half size guitar suitable for teaching a child, oh and the eldest one is SIX years old and the youngest is (farrrking) TWO."

DM (hurt expression) -"no need to be like that, I was just wondering..."

AIBU to be frustrated? I don't think I am!

No I don't think you are either. No point in starting stuff until the kids show an interest

'Me' - "Well next time don't be so rude when you're 'just wondering' and I won't 'be like that'. 'Can't be bothered......."

I can beat that. When pregnant with dd1:
MIL (on the phone to Dh) says "What are you going to do about music lessons?"
Dh:
MIL: "Well if dc wants music lessons, what are you going to do?"
Dh: "Err...pay for lessons."
MIL: "Oh, they have things like that up north then?"

I'd like to point out at this moment that we live in Leeds, not the middle of nowhere.

you are a very very bad mother.

craftyandclothy you mean you are not strapping an iPod to your bump with Bach and the like blaring through for at least four hours a day?