To have a rant about my dick of an ex

[Gossipmonster]

DS1 (16 yrs old yr 11 - struggling) parents eve Thurs. Not only did he not respond to my text asking him to come (after sending me a ranting email about him - how he knows anything I don't know as he refuses to respond to any communication from me).

My friend then tells me she bumped into him and his partner at her DDS grammar school fete this weekend.

He also had our two DCs but had given them money to go into town.

All so fucked up and wrong on every level he never spends any time with them and he and his gf just criticise them.

I have no idea why they still choose to go.

Thanks just needed a rant.

Try not to worry about what he's up to as it will only drain you, save your energy to be the better Parent and be the best person you can be. Your DC will thank you for it and benefit from it, and will see him for what he is.
just smile and think how lucky they were to be given money and didn't even have to spend the time with him,not only that the cash didn't have to come from your purse. Do you really want to embarrass Your DS by having this guy at parents evening!