AIBU in thinking my friend has massively over reacted here....
Last night, a very good friend of mine went out on a stag do, fancy dress. The theme was film characters, he was the chap from Gladiator. I saw them all before they left, they looked excellent to be fair. One in full Batman get up, another The Joker, about 15 others, and the Gladiator was in the proper leather skirt, sandals, leather stuff up his arms and legs and a pretty cool armoured helmet thing.
I called him this morning to see how it all went, and he explained that he had gone home at about 11.30 whilst everyone else stayed out. I asked what he had done, and he said nothing, everything was fine while they were in the bars and pubs, but the following problem arose when they tried to move on to clubs:
Doorman: "Sorry mate, you can't come in, you're wearing sandals"
Mate: "Of course I'm wearing bloody sandals, I'm a Roman!!!"
Doorman: "Sorry, you genuinely can't come in with sandals"
Repeat the same scenario at two more clubs, then he got so fucked off, he went home and the others stayed out without him. Which I think it fair enough, he wasn't the stag or the best man, he just missed the last 3 hours of the night because of something silly that had crossed no one's mind. He was not drunk or left anywhere, he got in a cab at the third club they tried and went home.
So, 1) he is not speaking to the others for "ditching" him, and
2) he is not speaking to me as when he told me the unexpected conversation between him and the doormen, I burst out laughing, (sorry, but forgive me for finding it fucking hilarious) and he hung up! And now won't answer his phone, having text me to graciously inform me that I am a "prick like the rest of them." Tell me he is being totally unreasonable?