To think that everyone else is happier than me?

[CrazyLottie]

I wake up with a knot in my stomach sometimes - what has my husband said/done that makes me feel "not right". Or is this just part of marriage (10 years)?

Depends what it is hes said hun,your feelings arent ever wrong.Theyre true to you.

I don't understand the leap from waking up with a knot in your stomach to 'what has my husband said or done'. Are you saying your husband is regularly verbally or physically abusive to the extent that you wake up automatically dreading him? What do you mean by 'not right'?

Of course it isn't normal to wake up dreading the person you are married to, if that is what you are asking, OP.