aibu to enjoy thinking about sending the OW a text...

[yetanotherstatistic]

...To say thankyou for ridding me of that excuse of a cocklodger ?

Not that I would of course (she hastens to add)

You sound ina good place! Enjoy the fantasy and have the ultimate revenge of living your life well without CL.

Or that old favourite 'when a man married his mistress, he creates a job vacancy...'

I like that one.

Yes - wouldn't want to risk her coming to her senses and then having him wanting to try our marriage again.