To think my ex should have been on time?

[Johnny5needsinput]

DD had a hospital appointment today. I'm 4 weeks into a new f/t job, so he said he would take her.

He was so late they had gone home and she has to wait all over again.

AIBU to think he should have been on time and be fuming with him?

It depends why he was so late.

He forgot.

Well, obviously YANBU and he should have been on time.

Do you really need to ask, or are you just wanting to vent?

Tbh, my ex is great and we have a good relationship, but if I don't text him to remind him of things, I know he will forget. It's daft and I know I shouldn't have to remind him of every little thing, but if I do it it helps him, I don't have to worry that he's forgotten, and I know my dc won't be let down.

I scanned the letter in and emailed him, after asking him if he was sure he could do it. I worked out timings. I emailed him and told him the timings and asked him if he was ok with that. He said he was.

I texted him this morning before I went to work and reminded him of the times. He replied to tell me he was remembering.

And he STILL "forgot".

I'm just venting I suppose :)