Ok that worked. So DSIS very easygoing sort. I organized low key hen in local town - tapas, drinks in no cover charge late bar. 10 of us went out in total and had a ball. I'm raging on behalf of DSIS as SIL made no effort to go as she is "broke". Eh yep, we all are with mortgages, all kids etc. She is pg and could have had tap water all night. We live in same town so I would have paid for taxi. This is the same SIL who's weekend long hen was 3 hours away and sister and I dutifully went, coughed up the cash and I was 6 mts pg with beginnings of spd.
She texted me earlier about something else and said hope you've recovered. I replied saying yes, it was a brilliant night pity you didn't make it. She replied, yeah would have loved to but ya know, no mon no fun.
Aibu to think she's a self centered cow with little regard for my sis?