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To be upset with my dh

9 replies

ItsOnlyANameChangeBob · 18/08/2013 00:31

He often looks at mutual / his female friends photos on Facebook "photos of X" ...not once but will go back to same photos on more than one occasion (so it isn't just looking at recent uploads) usually night out photos. So all dressed up looking hot. He doesn't look at my (pre DC) dressed up to the nines photos. It tends t be the same one or two girls. I don't particularly think they are way more attractive than me, just different (one is very Tom boy esque, the other a self confessed slut, he has often looked at same few pics of my sister but these are ones of her at a wedding so not exactly cock teasing!). Maybe I am reading too much into it and I've no intention of having a barney about it but tonight I just feel a bit fed up. I think I want to get dressed up for a night out and feel desirable and "hot".

I feel better for just typing this out

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NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 18/08/2013 00:54

Sorry but how do you know which pics he looks at and EEW at him looking at your SISTER!"

Icelollycraving · 18/08/2013 00:57

Slut?

ItsOnlyANameChangeBob · 18/08/2013 01:00

Internet history...links to the Facebook pages. Like I say the ones of my sister are just her and her man at a wedding, on a boat. The "slut" comment is her nickname for herself, hence why I wrote self confessed, so some of her pics are risqué compared to say the ones he looks at of the more Tom boy styled girl

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AgentZigzag · 18/08/2013 01:21

When you say 'looks' at the photos, are you thinking he's using them as wank fodder?

Sorry if I've got the wrong end of the stick Grin I'm just thinking you wouldn't be posting if he was just browsing them while he has a coffee or something.

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 18/08/2013 01:27

If he regularly looked at pics of your sister I'd be not only freaked out but grossed out too and I would challenge him too!

ImNotABarbieGirl · 18/08/2013 02:10

Yanbu. Would piss me off too.

sooperdooper · 18/08/2013 07:32

Why are you checking his Internet history in the first place? You're looking for something to be annoyed with him about, do you have reason not to trust him? You sound paranoid!

FredFredGeorge · 18/08/2013 07:33

You trawl through his internet history?

digerd · 18/08/2013 09:18

I wouldn't like it. I thought my DH was abnormal, as he never looked at another woman. It was as if I was the only woman who existed on this earth but then realised , for him, I really was. Smile. My dad was the same with mum, and that it how it should be.

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