To resent my DH when he puts his family first

[Ghanagirl]

Me and DH have been together 15 years but married for 8 years we have twins, my issue is that his family seem to resent me taking him away from them, prior to us getting engaged we travelled a lot had fun etc, but I always made time for my niece who
Belongs to my big sis plus the myriad of nieces on dH's side.
My issue is I get no help from mum or their

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Oh you again....

Are you going to tell us about the sofa yet again?

Sorry posted to early, but I'm going to just forget about in laws not worth getting worked up about