He started a new job in February and is regularly away 2 - 3 nights per week with work. He's brilliant about ringing every morning and evening, and we usually talk in the day once or twice too.
I also had a job for 18 months where I was away a lot, so we're used to dealing with it.
But I would prefer he's home more and would like him to find something different that means he can spend nights here and more time with his friends which he really misses, and doing music stuff he really enjoys. We're not joined at the hip much but I just really miss him, and know that this job is making him utterly miserable. AIBU to supportively help him to find something else that has less of an impact on our home life and his out of work things that make him really happy (he's not massively engaged with work really whereas music is his lifeblood).