To want to throttle DH

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I know I am BU (a bit) but suffering a horrible headache and just need to rant. Just answered phone to MIL who starts to talk to me about visiting on Sunday and staying til Monday. I don't mind the visit, get on ok with PIL and would never say that they couldn't stay. I'm just pissed off that DH has these conversations with him parents about them visiting and doesn't bother to let me know so I know nothing about it when MIL calls.

Am out all day tomorrow and Saturday so have to try to prepare everything tonight and in the little time I have free over the next couple of days. DH is working Monday so I'll be left to organise something for then. Am thoroughly, and probably unreasonably, pissed off that I'm the last to know and have sent DH a snippy email.

YANBU to be pissed off.

YABU to "prepare" and "organise" everything. Having said that, I would probably do the same tbh. Get DH to get his finger out tonight if he was the one who made the arrangements.

Have some . It won't get the house any tidier, but you'll care less!

YANBU

You should have said 'Sorry - DH didn't mention it and now I have other plans. He really is a one for making these arrangements and not telling me!!'

Don't enable him.

I'd have said it was gone to come but since dh hadn't said she'd be at dh's mercy when it came to dinner and beds made etc!

I would get DH to do most of the prep and order a takeaway for tea on Sunday.

You're much more polite than me, sending a snippy email. I often send DH emails entitled with various versions of what the fucking fuck you irritating fuck.

My voicemails aren't that cheerful either.

I wouldn't throttle him, but I might exact my revenge in some other way such as deleting all is recordings from the TV

LTB?

Just had a very apologetic grovelling phone call from DH. He didn't tell me because when he suggested to his mum they come for the night (as visiting BIL who lives half way between them and us) she said they wouldn't come because they couldn't leave the garden for three days

Not going to LTB this time, but might tell him who got fired on The Apprentice before he watches the programme.

YANBU
chipping puts it well, that's what I would've done.

but if you agreed already I would leave him to prep and organize everything too.

Don't spoil the TV show, just make him do the prep!

Goodness woman, they're leaving their garden to visit you.

Be grateful.

tinker

I hope you did not mean that!

dat is whell unfare init yo

slap dat dh up

well phrased grizzly !

init amazingmumof6 yo

Init tho Grizzly.

(I think that's the right thing to say)

yeh dats da write ting 2 say init

innit tho bruv an some shit yeah? random!