(Before anyone says it, yes we are adults and yes I do realise we both sound petty)
Xp and I take it in turns to pay for dc school meals/bus fare. One week each. This week is his turn. He gives ds his money for mon, tues and wed.
Last night he sends me a message saying he had forgotten to give ds money for thurs and fri so could I give it to him and he would give it to dd to give it back tonight.
I gave ds the money this morning.
Dd came home at 8.45pm tonight with a bag of chips, a fiver for herself and £2 for ds. No money for me.
I sent him a message asking if the fiver was meant for me. He replied saying I was taking the piss and he couldnt afford to give it to me. He had paid for their dinners, dds dance, bought her chips and given her a fiver.
My argument is he should have told me he couldnt give me the money. I could have then either given him sandwiches instead. He says im being unreasonable (
maybe he is a mnetter!?). The money was actually my bus fare for work tomorrow.I leave the house before 7am and now need to go and find a cash point before the bus. Its already a manic morning dropping dc in different places.
Just for background he doesn't pay any child maintenance and has dc every other weekend. He used to pay £7.50 a week but now pays £15 a fortnight dinner money instead.