aibu to think HES being unreasonable

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I work 60 hrs per week. Care for DC full time- DC is bad sleeper.

DH thinks we should be having sex 2-3 times pw

I think thats unreasonable given his workload is less than half mine so can't possibly fatham the tiredness.

I think once pw unless the mood takes us is reasonable.

first aibu post. be nice!

embrace lucky you! My dp can never be bothered! So
Unbothered he brought me a RR ha!

Op- it's simple really, if you don't want sex you don't have sex! I take he has hands?

The idea of having sex on a rota baffles me, surely it should be spontaneous dw and I are at it like rabbits one week then we can have nothing for ages just as it goes really, that said 3 children under 10 and a 90 hour working week does take its toll on the old libido hence I also bough dw a rr

NandH DH and I are beginning to realise we are both very lucky as our sex drive is similar. For those whose aren't similar to their partner's then that is going to be difficult for both of you. One is always going to feel hounded and the other is going to feel rejected. Not much fun either way.

What's a RR by the way?

Rr rampant rabbit

Rampant rabbits? Aren't they the ones with 2 or 3 appendages? Men have only 1. No contest

^^ lol.

the obvious factor is his sex drive is higher. maybe I need to try more and he needs to accept it won't be every day like he secretly hopes...!