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AIBU to think this guy is a player?

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Flowersandblue · 22/03/2013 16:47

NC

I've been with this guy for about three months. All going well. Tells me he loves me, calls and texts daily. We have a great time when we're together.

My nagging doubt and AIBU is he's a terrible flirt....with anyone. We went out for dinner the other night and our waitress was admittedly very attractive. DH commented on how much he thought she fancied him and wet she was talking to him. WTF??? I laughed it off and called him a wishful thinker.

He constantly looks at other women and now suddenly the texts are twiddling and as are the phone calls.

:(

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YouTheCat · 22/03/2013 16:49

Get rid. He is a player and he's casting his roving eye about for his next victim already.

You can do better, much better.

RunningAgain · 22/03/2013 16:51

DH? Freudian slip?

hellsbellsmelons · 22/03/2013 16:52

I agree - it's ending and he does sound like player.
Get out there and find yourself a good one!

LifeIsBetterInFlipFlops · 22/03/2013 16:55

Totally.

Move on ASAP.

Good luck.

Flowersandblue · 22/03/2013 16:56

Not DH!!! 'D'P !
We'd spent the whole day in bed and went out for dinner. He's usually very hand holdy / affectionate but wasn't . This was Wednesday. He texted me to say he loved me and had a lovely day when I got home.
I've called him twice since but no response .

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AgentZigzag · 22/03/2013 16:56

It's a great time to have this problem after only three months, saves months/years of being with the wrong bloke Smile

Get rid and find someone who really does like you.

AgentZigzag · 22/03/2013 16:57

Someone blowing hot and cold on you isn't a good foundation for a long term relationship.

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