Or was DH?

[Posterofapombear]

I have had mega ear infection and accompanying dizziness this week. Stayed of uni on Monday with DD (21 months) but I was still crap on Tuesday.

DH has Tuesday off and takes DD to a couple of classes. They got back at 4pm. He moaned at me about how badly his day had gone then dumped DD who was covered in poo on me. Soaked through 3 layers and covered in nappy rash. Managed to sort and calm her then he fucked off for an hour to make bread (for fun) came back and feed it to DD so she wouldn't eat her real dinner.

He then passed out on the couch and left me to do bedtime and tidy.

He had no idea why I'm pissed off, AIBU?

Of course he's being unreasonable. However, I would suggest this is one of those ones where you should tell him and then look to move on. you're both tired, things can be a bit shit and you get ratty with each other. Best not to dwell if he generally is good with you and the child.