AIBU? I am a SAHM with a DS and a DD already at school.
After years of SWOI (we were not TTC), DH and I decided to SWI with plenty of DTD. About 2 years ago I took a POAS and got a BFP and shortly afterwards PG was confirmed.
16 months ago we welcomed our PTB by ELCS (have been accused of being TPTP): another beautiful DS (DS2).
We started with BLW and then regular BF but after reluctance by DS to move on to solids this became EBF (I am NAK). The MW and, more recently, the HV both expressed concern and I consulted my GP.
DS2 recently diagnosed with ADHD. My initial reaction was to ROFL. But then with SIOB I accepted it. AFAIK this is the first incidence of it in the family. Been to the DSS to get DLA but they?re being PITA. No sympathy or financial support from the PIL or XP (not surprised TBH!)
Am now in discussions with local SENCO who says it?s NT, but need to raise lots of GBP to pay for initial consultation. Now DH becoming increasingly unsupportive responding ?JFGI?. FFS!
Am at my wits end.
Life was so much simpler BC and FWIW I wonder whether speaking in acronyms hasn?t made life for YT more difficult.
So my question, IYKWIM, is should I leave MN for my own sanity? And/or DH, for his?
YY or NN? I would value fellow MNers? POV.
TIA
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