DP has agreed to take and pick up his son from Manchester (2 hours drive there and back) on Friday night ? he wants me to go with him and spend a few hours in Manchester Friday night before we take his son home after his concert. I've only recently met his son last Saturday night for the first time and he's only 17 and was very shy with me and conversation was limited so I hardly know him. I said to DP ?does he know I'm coming?? and he snapped ?why would he??? so I said ?well, it might be a bit of a shock if I'm sat in the car, that's all? and so he snapped ?fine, I'll text him and he'll say ?ok? 
, jesus stop nagging? !! how the fuck is that nagging? Up until now he's wanted to play it all very slowly with his son, not rushing him into meeting me and playing it cool etc ? now all of a sudden we've met once and it's no longer an issue and I'm supposed to just know that??