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longtallgirl · 11/03/2013 10:56

Prior to meeting my gorgeous Husband he was, for a short and awful time, married to an emotionally and physically abusive woman. The woman had a young baby when they met whom my husband commited to raising (biological father had run away!)...she has married,baby, divorced (fourth time) since. My husband continued to raise child including paying maintenace until she and now ex husband became extremely threathening to me and husband and playing tug of war with the child. My husband was forced away painfully and the child told we had abandoned him amongst many other lies. 4 years later.....
I have been offered a Senior role in the Secondary School that the child now attends and am concerned about reopening this can of worms for my husband or the child....in addition to my professionalism being compromised. It is not unimaginable that the Mother would try to cause problems...... Do I accept the role or walk away. I just wanted an objective opinion really....

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goodjambadjar · 11/03/2013 16:30

longtallgirl, I'm glad you understand my name, very unusual!
When/if do you think you will speak to the school?

MrsLouisTheroux · 11/03/2013 16:38

I have been offered a Senior role in the Secondary School that the child now attends
Just wondering where in the country schools recruit senior staff by asking them to take a job Hmm. Didn't you have to apply for this job yourself and go through a fews days of interviews OP?

longtallgirl · 11/03/2013 17:14

Mrs Louis.....I applied in the normal way!

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MrsLouisTheroux · 11/03/2013 20:27

If you applied for the job regardless of this child being a student, you must want the job. Take it!

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