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Stelmosfire · 05/03/2013 05:27

I have something preying on my mind and need to ask this question even though I'm scared of the answer I may get.

BF of a few years house shares in town he works. He received a txt from the young woman who also lives there which I saw on his phone and got him to open in front of me. This woman is many years younger than both of us.

He was really cross that I was suspicious and he has a way of making me feel bad about asking any questions.

The txt was asking if he was at home and ended in the word " babe"
He txt back in front of me saying " no what's up?"

She went on to say about she wasn't going to come home and something about letting the cats out and getting in trouble from her mum.

AIBU to worry there is something going on? I just don't feel comfortable with the " babe" bit but I know to some people it's just a turn of phrase. Do I give him a hard time for nothing?

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BIWI · 05/03/2013 10:37

Really? Are you very young yourself, Stelmosfire?

I think you are trying to look for ways, now, to find an issue where there is none.

ErikNorseman · 05/03/2013 10:38

But they are flat mates! You are starting to sound bonkers. Why shouldn't he be friends with his flat mate, whatever her age? Do you have a problem with him living with her?

Stelmosfire · 05/03/2013 10:56

Ok I guess I have to hold my hands up and admit I'm wrong and yes probably a bit bonkers. Jealousy issue I guess. I,ve never really had a big issue with I'm living there before thought

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Stelmosfire · 05/03/2013 11:06

That should be"him living there though"

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