There seem to have been a lot of these lately where someone comes on and says "hello ladies, I'm new here (or a long term lurker)and then posts something really goading. I remember one a while back when someone claiming to want to "make friends" posted about someone smoking outside her DC 's school. When she got told she was BU, she added that the woman was pregnant. Then she flounced off saying that we were all really nasty. IThink there should be a rule that you can't start a thread in AIBU until MNHQ have seen references and a CRB check