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to be getting REALLY pissed off

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NOmeansNO · 21/02/2013 10:50

DP and EXW have now both left the marital home.

The lies are constant. The latest one is continually pretending she has had the home report done.

DP has already paid to have an inhibition lifted which was in his name, and paid the council tax arrears they had. Both he had no idea about until they split and he did a credit check and discovered CCJ's etc. ( none of which he had ANY idea about. She had hidden all the paperwork and notices of legal action)

She agreed to do the home report as she had previously denied access as she was still living in the house.

We have contacted the company she has insisted has done it. They assure us that no report has been complete. But she STILL argues that it has been done and paid for.

I've got pissed off and told DP he needs to just get his finger out and instruct it himself. As we move into a house of our own next month, and his baggage is still hanging around his neck 2 years after he split from EXW.

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MrsLouisTheroux · 21/02/2013 10:59

Does he need to pull his finger out? He could get things moving quicker than this if he sorted it out himself. If she's unreliable and stalling, he should just do it.

MrsLouisTheroux · 21/02/2013 11:00

As they have now both moved out, he now has access?

NOmeansNO · 21/02/2013 11:18

She moved out couple of weeks ago. I have told him today to get his stuff sorted and get it on the market before we move to the new house.

He has only just got a copy of the keys ( she changed the locks) last week.

He needs to clean the place before anyone goes in and take pictures as she has left it disgusting. Brand new kitchen, bathroom and carpets all minging Sad

But we have fallen out with me telling him to get it sorted and stop listening to her. As thats pointless as its clearly all a pile of lies.

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