To feel down about this?

[dishydashido]

Have namechanged for this.

Breif backstory
27th dec, ex rings me and tells him he has another girlfriend. He hasnt been back to the house since.we have 3 children together, he had regular contact now its nothing due to him being unable to handle the pressure of 3 children alone!

AIBU to wish the pair of them didnt have to flaunt their "relationship" at me every time i see them at the school gates. Couldnt they just cool it in public for a bit? It makes me feel so small and sick to the stomach
Im still hurting for me and my children for losing their father. We were together 6 years

Sorry for a depressing thread just venting really.

Why is he at the school gate with the ow?

She has child at the same school as mine - sorry should of put that in

Don't be down, rejoice!! He sounds like a monumental twat, be glad you are free!

Not being flippant either.

Have i misunderstood? He's going to the school your (his) DCs are at to pick up/drop off the OWs DC, but is choosing to have no contact with his own DCs (who presumably see him with the other DC)? poor kids!

That's a bugger but remember he is an twat and shit father and be thankful you don't have to have his smelly arse in your bed.

Thank you everyoneu

TIA - yep you ve understood right :( i try to get in and out as quick as possible so they dont see him, he wont even raise a smile its heartbreaking

It makes me wonder how the ow can love a man that would do that to you and his dcs.

She must be scraping the barrel.

Thank goodness you are free of him.

What a waste of a sperm receptacle.