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LoopsInHoops · 20/01/2013 12:15

Fuck off with your BLW wankery. It's feeding your frigging baby. Normal food. Why does it need a crappy name? So new mums who do it feel special, and those who don't feel like outsiders?

It's not a THING.

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PeggyCarter · 20/01/2013 12:17

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WorraLiberty · 20/01/2013 12:17

Blimey, who knew it could make someone so angry? Grin

YANBU though

It's always been called 'finger foods'

There I said it and you know what? I'd say it again....

PeggyCarter · 20/01/2013 12:17

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pictish · 20/01/2013 12:20

Yanbu.
To me it's simply 'weaning'.

sydlexic · 20/01/2013 12:20

I did attachment parenting and BLW before they were even invented.

BumpingFuglies · 20/01/2013 12:21

What is it anyway?

CheCazzo · 20/01/2013 12:23

YANBU - as I said on another thread (perhaps a little forcefully! Grin ) - this kind of wordy nonsense just boils my piss. I can't think of any justification for it except to make the parent feel like a dog with two cocks about how frightfully bang-on they are. Actually - breaking news people - it makes you sound like your brain is made of baby rice!

HecateWhoopass · 20/01/2013 12:25

isn't it just giving them stuff and letting them try to get it in their mouths, as opposed to spooning stuff in yourself?

Mine are teens now, so it's a long time ago, but I'm fairly sure it's always been done that way, hasn't it? bit of feeding them, bit of watching them shove a strip of toast up their nose Grin

I mean, it doesn't bother me if people want to make a big thing about it. I think when you're actually weaning your child it IS a big thing to you. But I don't know how it's any different from what's always been done.

Am prepared to be told just how wrong I am and why, though Grin

RuleBritannia · 20/01/2013 12:25

Right. For those of us who have grown up children, what is BLW? Ah! Baby Led Weaning?

We were statying with my parents when my son was 5 months old and I fed him a jar of baby food. He wanted more so I gave him half a jar. He wanted more so I gave him the second half of the jar. He wanted more and he finished up with a large tin of Ambrosia creamed rice inside him as well, spooned out of the tin. Had I been starving him? Since then, he has always eaten like a horse.

JohnBender88 · 20/01/2013 12:27

I HATE seeing all those "signatures" on another (fluffy as fuck) forum. "Mummy to cloth bummed, BF, BLW, co-sleeping, baby wearing enter ridiculous hippy name"

Excuse me whilst I put my Aptamil loving, self settling, pampers wearing baby down to applaud you....

PeggyCarter · 20/01/2013 12:30

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WorraLiberty · 20/01/2013 12:31
HollyBerryBush · 20/01/2013 12:32

This is the first commn sense thread I think I've seen on MN

HecateWhoopass · 20/01/2013 12:32

really?

That honestly surprises me.

BumpingFuglies · 20/01/2013 12:35

Big Loada Wank?

BumpingFuglies · 20/01/2013 12:36

Bollocky Lady Waffle?

wigglesrock · 20/01/2013 12:37

My granny was doing it with her kids and she's 100 Shock Grin

noddyholder · 20/01/2013 12:38

Yabu to be so aggressive about it though.

LoopsInHoops · 20/01/2013 12:39

Do you think it's just so some people feel like speshul mummies and daddies?

Or do people actually read the book? Yes, there is, indeed, not only a book but a website too. Trademarked. Someone has trademarked bloody baby feeding. Hmm

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FairhairedandFrustrated · 20/01/2013 12:40

Ha!!!!

My dd ate anything that wasn't tied down, including the toilet brush Wink

More like baby led gorging than weaning...

LoopsInHoops · 20/01/2013 12:40

No no, aggressive would be if I were ramming it down your throat. For BLW, you have to ram it down your own (if you're a baby).

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manormuppet · 20/01/2013 12:40

Baby wearing, blw , attachment parenting, cosleeping
Aaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhhhhh

KentuckyFriedChildren · 20/01/2013 12:41

Ha I didnt know what blw was when I had my first but I'm pretty sure I did it. I called it weaning though. I have a pic of the results on my profile :o

noddyholder · 20/01/2013 12:41

Fuck off,wankery,frigging,crappy sounds pretty aggressive to me. Its just a new name for a traditional thing

LoopsInHoops · 20/01/2013 12:44

No, words aren't aggressive. They might be offensive to delicate flowers, but they won't hurt you.

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