I have a bit of a like/hate relationship with FIL. he seems to be fine one minute and bitchin' behind my back the next. iv also caught him making fun of my dad (which really upset me and my dad has cancer so i think its a bit :/)
OH is upstairs doing work, his phone kept going off so i lent over to see if it was anything important (ok, ok i was being nosy!) now i have no idea how to use his phone, but his messages with FIL came up and i did have a read... there wasnt many on there, but one really stood up from 27th December. OH asked him "what was happening with seeing granny" and FIL text back an hour later saying "can you give me a ring when you have a minute", then another text straight after saying "when milf90 isnt around". :/
back story about what was happening that day - i think im being made out to be being unreasonable because i had made lans to see my friend with lo and then an hour later SIL and FIL announced we were seeing granny - then OH said no milf90 is busy and shes not cancelling her plans because she never gets to see her friend.
back back story - he has sent texts like this before that i have seen. when OH had an iphone i used to play games on it at night when i was doing night feeds when my ipod had ran out of battery. one upsetting one was OH saying milf90 is "very upset" (i had pnd) and FIL saying "she gives up to easy". i will NEVER forgive him for that one. he also told SIL that we should abort LO (just after i nearly lost him, i had had a lot of bleeding). iv also seen lots of glimpses of texts about me when we've been cuddled up on the sofa together and OH has quickly cleared them from the screen - i have no idea what they said.
is this normal? do PIL always bitch about you and your family to your OHs?? is this something that i just need to get used to?
and am i unreasonable in thinking that the "when milf90 is not around" text is not them planning a nice suprise, but so he can have a bitch???