It's dh's 30th birthday tomorrow. He has never had a party even as a child. We booked a cheap Chinese with a function room with karaoke ( I know some people's idea of a nightmare but we love it) and wanted to keep it as cheap as possible. Booked for 30 people paid £150 non refundable deposit, have got a massive cake baked costing £60 got balloons etc.
Anyway the snow is very bad here, not sure if anyone can go.
We have babysitter etc sorted and we rarely ever get out But I feel bad asking people to come out in this weather and maybe not get home again.
If I cancel I loose the money, I texted everyone and said we would be going but not to worry if they can't make it, even if a few of us go, we will still manage to eat and drink the deposit. But am I unreasonable to not cancel completely and am I putting people under pressure by not doing so?