Every Xmas my family (DH and DT's 3 years old) meet up with 2 other families we are friendly with for the kids to all exchange gifts. (Kids ages ranging from 6 years to 2 and a half all boys) last year we met in a soft play, the year before for a pub meal. This year has been hectic with illness, so we are planning to meet tomorrow. I suggested a nice pub with a soft play attatched as the weather is hideous. But another family have to rush off mid afternoon, so the plan is now to meet in a pub at 11:30 am for a couple of drinks. The pub in question isn't really child friendly, no play areas etc. I just don't think its appropriate to meet for drinks so early in the day with small children. Also it isn't going to exactly be relaxing, trying to keep 6 kids happy while we have "drinks". To be honest it sounds like my idea of hell. We can entertain our kids with some coluring books, for a while.....but .........
I've suggested everyone come to our house, where the kids can play to their hearts content, there are a few beers in the fridge if people really feel the need, and I'm happy knock up a load of sarnies if need be.
DH and I appreciate that you shouldn't let your children dictate your life......but....
Or AIBU?