To think that everyone

[AlmostMrsRobinson]

'Has a wank'?

Yanbu, I think they do to.

I don't. Ever.

I think they do. Or they have at least once.

my DH doesn't. ever. i think he's a weirdo.

I think you'll find there are a lot of wankers on mumsnet.

I thought everyone did. But tonight after a few drinks ha been enlightening! I'm actually shocked that some people never do

Yes, and I feel sorry for some of my female friends who honestly believe their partners don't do it.

not me.

I know dp does it, frequently. We rarely have sex as I have a very low sex drive. Very little turns me on and doing it alone is definitely not one of those things.
However, I suspect I am fairly abnormal. Especially if you heard the way my sister goes on about it :l

My friend said her DH never has which I found hard to believe but she also said that she hadn't either.

Feel like a right wanker ;)

BOF :o

i reckon most will have done it at least once and if they havent they're either getting too much sex to bother or are wierdos. I hate that term though. It's a bit bleurgh.

"i reckon most will have done it at least once and if they havent they're either getting too much sex to bother or are wierdos."

or have sexual hang ups related to sexual abuse as a child. but ok if you want to think i'm a weirdo. i'd love to be able to agree with you.

Forced (as in not in the mood/not turned on) sex/sexual acts brings my migraines on aswell. So that's another reason for me.

Santa I dont mean to offend anyone and my comment was lighthearted so I am sorry that I have upset you. I certainly didnt mean to

ok, apology accepted. just, maybe think of other reasons why some things do or dont happen before sticking a label on someone. i dont wish to patronise anyone and i'm sure it was just unthinking but this is just a bugbear of mine, i suppose for obvious reasons. i know there are other child abuse victims on here and in RL that have had it up to their eyes of being considered weird or frigid or whatever throughout their lives.