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AIBU to be annoyed at passive aggressive comments at work?

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Hydrophilic · 14/12/2012 09:06

So many little comments by my supervisor. They only tell me the rules when I do something wrong.

I had put myself in for overtime today. Spoke to my supervisor to tell her earlier in the week something had come up and I couldn't do today. She said I had to speak to my manager, so I did and (although she huffed) tipexed me off the rota.

I have just had a call from supervisor saying "you're supposed to be in", to which I explained I had been taken off.

I then got the comment "well she hasn't taken you off my rota".

AIBU to be fed up of comments like this? It's not my fault she didn't!!

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Hydrophilic · 14/12/2012 09:11

P.S. Its a NMW christmas temp job. It's not one where I am encouraged to take responsibility for anything. Just be treated like a mushroom.

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bradywasmyfavouritewiseman · 14/12/2012 09:12

Well in this instance yabu.

She stated a fact. You hadn't been taken off the one she had.

Hydrophilic · 14/12/2012 09:15

Brady- it was the tone Sad. It wasnt apologetic, I ended up apologising for someone elses fault.

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TrillsCarolsOutOfTune · 14/12/2012 09:15

A rota made of paper.

With two copies?

Where one could be changed and the other not changed?

It is 2012, isn't it?

"well she hasn't taken you off my rota", said in an angry or annoyed or disappointed or otherwise unhappy voice, is not anger at you but at the person who changed one rota and not the other. It is not passive aggressive and it is not aimed at you.

SantasComingEarlyHisSackIsFull · 14/12/2012 09:15

YANBU OP. Ignore and move on. Supervisor is bitter and probably stuck in a crap job. What is NMW?

Hydrophilic · 14/12/2012 19:22

Trills-I work in the dark ages Grin.

Ok I will forget about this until im in tomorrow. I will let you know if I get bollocked (wouldnt suprise me).

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