to ask etiquette advice?

[nobutts]

I know there's a board but I think more people = greater chance of right answer.

So..if I send an Xmas card to Ex in laws do I do it a) just from me b) from me and DS..their DGS c) me, DS and DP, latter of who they've never met and don't know and who is father of stbDC2? We don't talk anymore though not through any problems just because after initial contact after fall out of divorce etc it fell away..also I know they have regular access to DS and so don't have to ensure that happens.
Also, should I now remove from Facebook? I don't have exh on there and am certain he would nose when round their house..
Wwyd?

Any help gratefully received.

if you get on well with them i would put it from you and DC, if not then just DC.

I wouldn't put DP in the card as they don't know him

I would put them on a restricted list on FB so they can't see all your stuff (won't help previous posts though) but not defriend if you like them.

I would send card from you, and maybe get your DC to draw a picture or something for them?

I'd send a card from all of you, as a family. But I'd restrict them on fb.

I would put that it was from 'brady and family'

YY, I like 'and family'.

Personally, I wouldn't have them on facebook - it's just not worth the hassle. But maybe post one of those 'I'm deleting friends I've lost touch with from FB so I don't annoy you with spam posts, please let me know if you'd like not to be deleted' so they don't take it too personally?

I would do just from you

surely ds's dad will sort out a card from Ds?

not sure about facebook sorry -not sure how it all works

I would send a card from you and ds. I wouldn't have them on FB in the first place though or if I did, they'd have very restricted access.

V helpful thanks. I think I'll do me and DS and stop on fb.