I'm struggling for money at the moment. Daughters dad has never paid anything towards her, but he doesn't see daughter without me there yet due to concerns about her safety with him. He doesn't ask about her or show much interest at all except asking for her alone for overnights twice, which i've said no to, he earns 20 grand ish a year, but has said to me a few times he's in debt, which doesn't figure with his rent etc. Am i being unreasonable to ask for money when he's not that involved?