For asking bf to get tested for HIV?

[ekojem]

Split up with my bf 5 years ago and we got back together two months ago (through fb).

Since we split up he has gone travelling every winter to Thailand and Cambodia. I've seen photos on his fb with plenty of local girls there draped over him, one even feeding him grapes! I've read you can pay these women to stay with you for weeks or even marry you if you give them money.

Also, he told me when he goes there (he usually stays 2 or 3 months) he smokes crystal meth. I read up about it as I was worried about him smoking that stuff and it said it makes you very horny that you will shag anything as you are out of your mind on drugs.

AIBU to ask him to have an HIV test before we sleep together again? We haven't had sex yet because he won't wear a condom. He keeps refusing to go for STI checks. I can't help thinking he is hiding something? He has also refused to tell me about the girls in the photos.

He is going back there in December for two months (he booked it ages ago), should I trust him to stay faithful?

Thanks Jem

Sorry but i think this says more aout were the op is at in terms of self asteam

Someone who is not low would not evean entertain this looser

Yeah he sounds a keeper ......................

I hope this is a wind up, nobody could be that stupid naive to think he would be great boyfriend material.

Why would it be a wind loads of people date loosers my sister had a baby with a guy

Who had no job and already had 4 children one of which his brother had tried to sexually abuse and is in jail for but he still speaks to the brother and has frozen out the childs mother for calling the police

a real cath right but she wouldnt be told her self worth is really low and this is all she thinks she is worth

I hope this is a wind up, nobody could be that stupid naive to think he would be great boyfriend material

I dont think it is people put up with a lot from people, women have babies with drug adicts criminals etc etc like fishwife said her sister had a baby with a loser it happens ,

This is what Crystal Meth will do for him...

Will you still love him when he looks like a rotting corpse?

you deserve better.

if he loved you, he would take the tests openly in order to keep you safe.

I think you need to get some counselling and move on.

If you are really honestly set on a relationship with this man, then no Yanbu to ask him to get a full screening for all stds including HIV. Personally, I wouldn't want to have a relationship with anyone who thought it was ok to go on holiday to somewhere and pay for sex, but it takes all sorts.

Does his willy look like this

WARNING!!

Of course it's a wind up.
Read the OP name backwards.

Well I knew it was a wind up but how did I miss that!

Fut I just commend why do you know that link my eyes my eyes!

*vommed not commend!

Ermm- I work a lot of night shifts- light entertainment/shock value is sometimes needed

Holy Jesus, special fried rice willy disease

I do not want to know what you were googling!

Tis the male equivalent of blue waffle disease so I'm told

Ekojem - write off the money you have lent him. If he's not prepared to take an std test for you, he's not worth it.

Thanks Fut g r i m

Ah. ekojem = mejoke