My mil asked a while ago what we were getting ds for christmas, i said as hes 5 months and wont even know what it is we are getting him a baby walker, and have asked others if they must buy presents then to buy things he needs for the next year or so, such as clothes, my own mum and dad are buying his next car seat, nan is buying high chair etc.
She asked what she could buy and after thinking i said, well remember when he was born and you wanted to buy a present but you were too tight to go and buy one cos you had too spent all your time in the pub instead you said you would buy baby monitors, and we do still need them actually.
she agreed to buy baby monitors, she rang dp up this past week and told him she had bought some and also got him a walker too 
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Ive not seen her yet but was mad when dp told me she had done this, she does have previous form for trying to take over and im seriously pissed off, I'd already ordered his walker that dp and I had picked ages ago, aibu to say something and ask er to return it?? i know she will cry and make it all about herself again, dp doesnt want me to say anything and just said we could leave it at her house for when ds goes there, thing is he hardly goes there as they continue to smoke around him and he came back stinking recently so hasnt been back since.
if i dont say anything now she will carry on like this wont she...