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to think that feminism should have thought about the consequences and set some rules.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 20:33

I've been chatting with DP this evening and mentioned a post that's been doing the rounds on facebook. It's from a lady sending a message to This Morning about the cost of childcare - on the surface it's a powerful post.

To cut it down:

'I am looking to return to work next year and child care will cost 810 every 4wks - this is more than our mortage!!. The government should help with child care costs.'

DP and I agree with it's sentiment - that child care costs are crippling families, but not necessarily with helping for the costs - he said:

"This is why feminism should have laid down some rules. Both parents earning an income meant banks salivated and started lending for homes based on both. This has forced up prices to cover this as house prices are a function of the amount being lent. Society as a whole loses, bankers win. What should have happened is when you have kids, both parents should be encouraged to work part time so that childcare is shared - or failing that the higher earner whichever gender should have been the one to work. Problems like this wouldn't have happened."

It struck a chord with me - what do you ladies think?

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Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 23:12

Oh please let Tulsa be real. The fact that Xenia really is an island owning lawyer is one if my favourite things about MN.

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 23:12

Its taken 32 years and you still are not legally allowed to practice here?

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:14

No you don't scottishmummy. the conversion necessary to fulfil the uk criteria just disappears when you have the necessary information to turn the opaque diamond trade transparent overnight in your back pocket.

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kim147 · 09/11/2012 23:14

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PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 23:15

And yet it took 32 years to make partner?

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 23:15

That's probably news to the SRA

scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 23:16

oh I love you more each post
you just sashay past those damn obstacles dontcha
yea don't let a stuffy regulatory body hold you down tulisa

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:16

This is the problem Pamela. We're still being supressed by the patriarchs.

He loves Northerners Kim. Some of his best friends are from there.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:17

The SRA can do one. Charlton Heston too.

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MooncupGoddess · 09/11/2012 23:17
TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:18

That's the dream mooncup, that's the dream.

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 23:18

of course she's real. ghetto girl made partner what's not to love
yea you stuck it to the sra
stuffy ole bastards bet they don't even know who dappy is

PamelaSwynfordDeBeaufort · 09/11/2012 23:18

This is the problem Pamela. We're still being supressed by the patriarchs.

Not at Linklaters. It has one of the highest pertxentage of female partners. its one of their 'pledges' and ideals. So with your 'skills' you should have made partner well before 32 years.

Chubfuddler · 09/11/2012 23:19

Companies house tells me there's a linklaters properties limited in breacon. Are you sure you don't work for them?

MiniTheMinx · 09/11/2012 23:19

Have you got people watching you OP? hear voices? strange flashing lights, helicopters overhead, strange headaches at all, anyone following you?

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:19

Shit he's dead now. Feel really bad. Loved him in the Colbys.

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 23:20

without googling tulisa
what's sra

TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:21

Shit - you've discovered our from Chub. Keep it under your hat.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:21

front, not from.

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MiniTheMinx · 09/11/2012 23:21

Who's dead? you DP? who got him?

kim147 · 09/11/2012 23:21

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:21

The reg board. Scum of the earth in my book. We could do without interference from that lot.

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TulisaLover · 09/11/2012 23:22

Mini- Charlton Heston.

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scottishmummy · 09/11/2012 23:22

you're linklaters?gosh
well we will meet soon
maybe we can letdown and shake it to tinnie tempah

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