I posted this in relationships and got 2 measly replies so thought id post here.
Not really an AIBU but i think there's one in here somewhere...
AIBU to expect my to leave me the fuck alone?
Ill try and summarise best I can.
6 year relationship split up for various different reasons, selfish, unappreciative, lazy, you get the gist.
I asked him to move out when I was five month pg with ds3 he obliged told me I held him back didn't need/want me would be better off without.
I asked him if he wanted to work things out because if not then there would be no going back for us.
Roll on 5 months later ds3 now 4 weeks old he wants to get back together, he's going to change, do whatever I want to make it work blah blah blah.
He has admitted to shagging a couple of other women so there's my line, he's crossed it, no going back as far as I am concerned.
Plus I'm happier on my own than i have been in a long time.
So I've told him all of this but still he still refuses to accept.
His replies vary from "I love you, ill do anything" to " ill never let you be with another man." Plus a few " if you don't do it for me, do it for the kids "
I've tried the gentle "sorry I still love you but just cant forgive you" approach (true)
and the hard line "your a cunt I deserve better fuck you" type responses
(true again)
Nothings working.