To think he shoud be here ASAP

[Fishwife1949]

Right looking after my DN as my sister has just oved and here and my bil cannt take anymore time off and DN wont start here new day care for 3 weeks

I am nor charging as this is family the agrement is that sister drops her in the morining and bil pickes her up

The issue is he is going home first getting a shower and a bite to eat before coming to get her i think this is a bit of a piss take and think he should come stright from work He gets home about 3 but is not getting here till about 5 um i live 20 minutes down the road ffs

Lso its not as if hes a lumber jack and needs a shower after work he works in a bank ffs

Aibu

You should also say something simply to pull him up on his rudeness.

Could you drop her home for 3pm?

Yes i could but i dont feel i should have to get the bus to there house and then travel all the way back when he could just zip down here in 20 minutes

YANBU Do you drive could you drop niece home at say 3 .15 cheeky sod isn't he ,

No i am on the bus

Oh so you couldnt drop her home Just say erm remember and pick her up at on your way home I am going to X YZ , they are taking the piss , bet he wont be so keen to have a bite to eat when they start paying childcare

yanbu. he should be there.

My friend looks after her grandsons 3 days a week before and after school. The arrangement was that whoever gets home first either her DD or her DH comes and collects the boys. They only live up the road from my friend and she can see the back of their house from her front. Friend found out that SIL used to get home have a cup of tea and look at the computer etc. before collecting the boys. Now days as soon as she sees a light on in the house she sends the boys home DH doesn't like it but as she says she has things to do as well.