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Original poster

to ask someone to call my dp....

12 replies

goingfookinmad · 02/10/2012 04:33

i think he's cheating lot's of big red flags waving in my face.he hasn't come home and won't answer my calls i am totally freaking out

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ThatVikRinA22 · 02/10/2012 04:59

and what is the person calling supposed to say to him?

have you checked all the local hospitals/police etc?
have you asked him outright if he is seeing someone else?

Original poster
goingfookinmad · 02/10/2012 05:01

i don't know just to see if he answers it really

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ThatVikRinA22 · 02/10/2012 05:12

i dont think you will get many takers for that, but im sorry you are going through this, its not nice.

is he due at work or anything tomorrow? call work to find out if he showed. if not, check hospitals, police etc.

are you sure he is seeing someone?

ripsishere · 02/10/2012 05:16

Not sure what you want the outcome to be. Surely he wouldn't answer a call from a random number at whatever the time is in England now?

swooosh · 02/10/2012 05:31

Call him from a with held number? Where is he?

ThreeWheelsGood · 02/10/2012 05:35

If he hasn't come gone why do you assume he's cheating, not under a bus or been in an accident?! I'd be freaking out if my partner wasn't home, probably be calling police/hospitals... Unless you already know he's elsewhere?

JeezyOrangePips · 02/10/2012 07:25

You poor thing op, I hope you have heard from him. I know exactly how you feel, had a similar experience with my ex. He didn't have a phone not to answer though. Turns out he'd fallen in with some friends and gone to a party - and not though to tell me.

I suspect that it wouldn't matter what number called, he would realise it was you/on your behalf at that time of morning. I'd have called for you though, I understand.

ThreeWheels - she says there are lots of red flags, so I suspect this isn't the first thing she has noticed.

Shutupanddrive · 02/10/2012 08:28

Just found this thread. Any update OP?

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goingfookinmad · 02/10/2012 10:38

i have heard from him this morning told me he was at his mums all night and fell asleep bullshit beacuse i spoke to his mum and she told me he didn't get in till half 6 this morning.

he has done this a few times so i knew he wasn't dead arrested maybe dead no i would have heard something the red flags are the obviou ones staying out late not answering phone being very cagey when i ask him questions puls loads more my gut is telling me he is and so is my head i just don't now what to do.

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squeakytoy · 02/10/2012 12:00

do you live with him?

PiedWagtail · 02/10/2012 14:03

Dump him, perhaps?

cheekybarsteward · 02/10/2012 14:09

He thinks you are a bit daft do you think?

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