sorry a real rant !!!!!day off today had arrangements today for a friend to come over this morning for a cuppa , got organised as she normally needs me to be an ear known for a long time and always there for her , no show no phone call nothing i thought never mind somethings prob come up and shell be in touch , another friend was coming this afternoon already arranged the other day , again no show and no phone call explained to both friends when we arranged i cannot call them as phone playing up , neither on fb , then to top it all money i expected to be returned from son previous thread, hes decided to give me half said he needed tobacco and had to pay a friend a £5 he owed him from yest never mind he owed me the money first little ones birthday tomoro and needed to buy card and cake , im feeling like a mug right now and it was my birthday yest no cards from kids a phone call from eldest though wishing me a lovely day says she sent a card but not here yet , a text from other son early this morning obviously when he read wellwishers on fb and thought oh shit!, , then youngest (Early twenties)from the older 3 who is now upstairs forgot completely still hasnt realised although theres cards from 2 friends and card from parents in living room shelf he didnt come home at all yest stayed at friends , thankyou for reading if you got this far just needed to sound off !!! AIBU or should the lot of them give me a bit more consideration :(