to expect not to have such

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A mess around with the children seeing their dad? Good afternoon everyone. My exh and I have been seperated for 4 years now. For the first 2 he saw the children maybe every two weeks with then staying with him on a Saturday night. It has gradually become more regular maybe they stay on a sat night 75% off the time. As exh doesn't drive my DH drops them off on way to work on a Sat morning and we pick them up 3pm on a Sunday so that exh can go out drinking with friends. It's not ideal as any plans on a Sunday have to take into account a 3pm pickup.
Anyway exh now has season tickets so would like the children dropped off after the match and picked up at 3pm before the drinking session on Sunday AIBU to
Be annoyed?

Good job you left him or I'd be able to say leave the bastard.
What a twat, his game is more important than time with his children.

yeah I'd be annoyed, by the time he's home from the match it could be 6pm and that's without the ones that kick off late, tell him tough.

Thing is if I say no he will say to the children "mum says I can't see you"???

Say yes but he'll have to make his own arrangements to pick them up as its not convenient to you.

Thing is if I say no he will say to the children "mum says I can't see you"???

And you will tell the kids up front, Daddy has decided that he wants to watch Football without you every week so he won't see you till almost bedtime. Do you want to bother going?

Thankyou calafornia. I didn't think of that.